Starting a new business? First change yourself!

Life is CHANGE and change keeps us ALIVE. So be flexible and be ready to make a MOVE every moment of your life! I love to change. And at the same time, like every human being, deep down I desire to keep things the way they are, have it the easy way, because I’m lazy as well.

The good part of laziness is that it makes us inventive. Because we like to have it easier, people have invented tools like knives, cars, brushes, nail-cutters, mixers, computers and so much more. I’ve been inventing many little things at home to make life easy and to make fun toys for the kids and the cats. Or to help clients, parents, friends and strangers. I have an inventive mind and I look at things like that.

I’m a wanderer and I love to travel, to explore and improve the world, my home, my life and my self. Often in that order, but the older I get the more I understand that it works the other way. So you first have to explore and improve Your Self. At first “Know Thyself΅ as Socrates said, before you try to fix the world.

Change your focus and get what you want

People want to change everything except themselves. They tell their partner or their kids: “When you change, I’ll be happy.” That has never worked out very well and it is impossible. I have been a trainer and therapist for more than 40 years and I know that you can only change one person and that is yourself. And that is quite a job already. You can love and raise your kids and you can influence and teach people, but you can not change them. Only they can when they want it. However, most of us have no idea what they want.

Now I’m 63 and I really love the work I do. I’m an entrepreneur since 2003 and I have created a therapy that works very well. I’ve written a book about getting rid of traumatic memories and that’s what I teach people. I do individual sessions and organise retreats in beautiful places like Corfu in Greece.

But I wanted MORE TIME to travel and to play and so I have been searching for new ways to get money. It’s not the first time. I’ve changed profession more than once and I’ve learned many skills. So at the start of 2023 I began to educate myself in affiliate marketing.

The good feeling of earning honestly

The madness that started in 2020 stopped me doing my workshops and retreats all over Europe. And I did not travel for 3 years. That was a choice not to act according to the crazy new rules. I got stuck by the crazy new rules. Everyone has struggled with that, but the worse part was that I started to believe in the limitations. So what I had to do was KICKING MY OWN ASS, leave my home and hit the road again. So I bought some training and took the train to Berlin.

And yes, there is a lot of BS in this field as well, but of course there are good really rich affiliate marketers as well, who want to share their products, service, skills and experience. Who are reliable and who want, just like me, earn money in an honest way.

Be patient and believe in yourself

When I was 20 years young I started to work in this field of helping people with mental problems, because that was what I knew. It was not a very conscious choice. I just did what I was good at and now I offer an excellent service helping people to get rid of deep trauma.

My next step is to improve my skills in making money in an easier way. Yes, it has cost me money and time to find the good ones. And I had to learn HOW TO DO IT, but I have found the right person and the right way to make money in an easy and honest way. All beginning is hard. You just have to work for it. And you have to be patient. 😉

Change your beliefs and your self-image

The most important part you have to do is to work on your beliefs. I had limiting beliefs about my technological skills. And then I took a job at IBM and became an ICT specialist. Since 20 years I’m building my own websites and I love it.

The most destructive beliefs I had were those about rich people, being rich, earning money, deserving money and the creation of money. So in the end the answer is always: change yourself and change your belief system.

You can learn the skills, but when you don’t believe you can do it, you can’t. When you do believe it YOU CAN!